If this scenario is getting old: swiping through dating profiles that blur together in a sea of “loves hiking” and “enjoys good food” (who doesn’t?), asking ChatGPT to debrief yet another first date flop, and getting ghosted after what felt like award-worthy text banter… you’re not alone.
What if your next great connection didn’t start over the internet, but on a gravel ride through the warm desert backdrop of Patagonia, AZ—with someone who actually gets your obsession with bikes, the great outdoors, and post-ride cheers?
Well, Cupid must be a cyclist because there’s a brand new event that’s got all the makings of a love story—gravel bike rides, curated social activities, and a crew of like-minded singles. Introducing: Weekend in Paradise, brought to you by the matchmaking masterminds at The Cyclist Menu.
Your perfect match profile
This weekend is designed for the bike-loving bachelor and bachelorette aged 35–55 who are ready to ditch the apps, love the outdoors, and are hoping to meet someone special. You’re the kind of person who thrives on fresh air, movement, and good vibes. Whether you’re new to gravel or a seasoned rider, this experience is less about watts and more about sparks.
This isn’t your average singles weekend
The team at The Cyclist Menu—aka professional mood-setters with a knack for vibe curation—have spent years hosting boutique bike riding experiences around the world. Over time, they noticed something: there were riders that were looking for a deeper connection. So they decided to lean in, take the plunge, and build something a little more intentional—Weekend In Paradise.
Patagonia’s stunning landscape becomes your ultimate wingman as you navigate gravel roads and social outings. Over four golden-hued days, you’ll pedal through Patagonia’s magical summer-to-fall transition, share stories at group dinners, warm up around bonfires, and maybe even grab the mic for karaoke at the Wagon Wheel Saloon. Oh, and did we mention the daily Speed Mingle sessions? Think of it as speed dating’s cooler, more laid-back cousin. It’s just a relaxed way to meet fellow riders.
Each day includes a casual but supported ride (20–30 miles), a chill afternoon, and an evening of music, mingling, and mood lighting—plus meals that are anything but average. Think chef-prepared dishes that are fresh, ridiculously tasty, and immaculately plated. Whether it’s a post-ride lunch that hits all the right recovery notes or a dinner that feels more like a pop-up restaurant experience than a camp meal, the food is a central part of the weekend—and every bite is designed to bring people together.
And just like the meals, the rest of the experience is crafted for connection. From the Alto Ghost Town ride to Friday night bonfires, the schedule is equal parts adventure and relaxed. By the end of the weekend, you’ll have spent quality time with 37 potential matches—way more efficient than months of disappointing dating app meetups.
First date jitters? We get it.
Feeling a bit apprehensive about this adventure? Totally normal—meeting new people in an unfamiliar setting with potential romance in the mix can be intimidating. But here’s the thing: everyone attending is stepping into the same situation, looking for authentic connections through shared experiences.
This Weekend in Paradise is about creating an experience that brings people together—whether that connection ends in love, friendship, or just a damn good time in the desert. With 15 dynamic bike guides riding alongside at ALL paces and styles, no one gets left behind.
There’s no pressure to force a romantic connection—just the potential for authentic human connection on every level. At worst? You’ll walk away with new stories, new friends, and maybe a little more faith in meeting people the old-fashioned way. At best? Well… wouldn’t it be cool if you met someone?
Ready to put yourself out there? Here’s how to make the first move
Don’t leave this match to the algorithms! Registration opens on June 29th and spaces are limited for this 4-day event in Patagonia, AZ. They’re keeping things intimate with spots for just 37 women and 37 men — a perfect ratio for maximum connection potential.
Plus, there’s a thoughtful matching process: after signing up, you’ll complete a short bio and submit a photo that gets shared with fellow attendees before the weekend begins. It’s a chance to get to know the group a bit before the weekend.
Weekend in Paradise is about showing up as yourself, being open to connection, and maybe leaving with more than just Strava kudos. Because let’s face it—your next great adventure (and maybe your next match) probably isn’t on an app. It’s waiting in Patagonia.